“Kiss” as we hear it , we smile ! Don’t we? Whats so interesting about those magical thing. I still remember the first ever kiss i got from the one i love and it still looks like a dream! Dream? uhmm , yes may be. Its because of the unconventional thoughts that creep every Women’s/Bride’s mind during/before her first kiss
Nothing can ever beat a first kiss. Doesn’t matter if you are getting kissed for the very first time or you are kissing a new person for the first time, kisses are the best part of any relationship. A kiss from your mother, father or even your loved one, makes your day, isn’t it? But, there is one type of kiss that isn’t very easy to take in at the first go. Oh well, since it is the week of love and today being valentine’s day, wouldn’t it be great fun to rewind and think of all the unconventional crazy thoughts that we girls have gone through during our first kiss? Kisses are very awkward and let’s face it upfront. First time you are learning to let someone else do something to you, and it could be extremely uncomfortable to you and the other person as well. Although some kisses make you see a whole new level of fireworks and fantasy inside your head, most first kisses are filled with weird questions and thoughts.
It also depends on where you are while kissing for the first time. Well, yes, the surroundings do matter as well. So, here are all (around .. exactly) paranoid thoughts that generally ruffles into your head during your first kiss.
Do I wait for a signal ?
Mind is super funny at times. When you like the person a tad too much, it starts playing games with you. You will start questioning your judgments about what you tend to feel. Did he actually want to kiss me? Does he want me to initiate? When is the right time to kiss him? Am I going to kiss now? These are the kind of weird questions that come up to you right before you have your magical moment. The moment although is magical and beautiful, you will not be able to enjoy it entirely due to the constant battle with your mind.
Oh my god, his face is near me!
You haven’t seen him this close till now and suddenly he comes damn close to you. The first thing is you tend to freak out that his face is close to yours and there isnt anything else left to do than to kiss him now. This is when you start thinking, is his beard too pokey? What do I say that is perfect now? And then you come back to your normal sense brushing away all these thoughts. That is when he takes you to the magic world of love by initiating the kiss.
Am I kissing right?
This is the doubt everyone has. We’ve seen it in the TV, movies, Serials and where not! Kisses seem to be perfect when seen on screen. It is a real task to feel secure and confident about your kissing when it comes to doing it in real life. There are way more insecurities and questions that might be difficult for you to comprehend. The very first thing you might ask yourself is if you are doing the deed right or not! Kisses are beautiful but how do you know if you are a good kisser or not?
Alright it’s happening!
There you go – banggg! It happens and all you can would be doing is try to process the moment every second. First kisses aren’t that long. It happens quick and even if it is long, there would be an awkward aura around you. So, the only thing you and your partner should be doing is to process the present and forget everything else. His lips on yours and yours on his. My quick advice – Don’t think of anything. Just enjoy the moment if your mind lets you be in peace. Even if it doesn’t let you in peace, chuck the feeling and continue the action. Action speak louder anyway!
When your first kiss is on “the” day
Many girls and even guys tend to have their very first kiss during the most important day of their life. A marriage is a lifetime of love, commitment, responsibility and mainly affection. What better way to have your kiss on the day you get committed to one another officially? It could be creepy and various things do run in your mind during this day, but the one thing that makes you forget everything else is a kiss from your newly wed Husband! And if you have a wedding photographer to capture your first kiss, would you say no? ( i wouldn’t!! ) Wedding photography is all about freezing the memories and its the wedding photographer who could help you go back in time and cherish them!
Pictures do make life beautiful and memorable. In order to make it more special, you could always ask your wedding photographer to click your first kiss. The moment may fade but the picture of your first kiss will keep reminding that life was meant to be beautiful for many such small reasons!
This is the final thought that comes into you. The realization that you just kissed is bigger than the actual kiss. You start feeling shy, you turn pink, you smile endlessly and you wouldn’t want to look directly in his eyes. Yes Yes, we have all been there and done this. The best and final thing that hits you is the realization that you will be doing this for another 5687367836 (exxageration? Maybe not) times and life is going to get more beautiful.
Kisses are definitely the purest form of showing someone how much you mean to them. Plus they say it reduces calories(isn’t that just convenient?). So girls, why are you still reading the article. Get up, move, catch hold of your partner! Aren’t kisses the best way to start your valentine’s day?
Kiss and kiss away ladies!
Correct me if i was wrong , I am happy to learn from you.
Sharadha Gopalakrishnan & Mani Kandan
Spreading smiles (: (: